Misunderstood

Misunderstandings.  They are exactly as the word implies, yet do you not often allow them to dictate your relationships and your behaviors?  It is quite simple for two human beings to misunderstand each other.  Your language is an imperfect form of communication, and keep in mind that where there are two human beings there are two perspectives.  And so you enter into agreements and situations with another expecting them to understand your perspective and your words exactly as you intended them.  When the other does not and the resultant behavior or outcome is not as you envisioned or desired it, there is often anger and condemnation.  In some cases you cut off a relationship or do other such things which hurt yourself as much as the other.  We are simply attempting to shed a bit of light on things and to show you that if you rise above the human interaction and see that all that matters is loving each other, perhaps you could see why things have turned out as they have.  Better yet, how they might turn out if you turn the other cheek.