Expectations and Ideals

The one true Mother is the One who birthed the spirit.  Any other you identified as "mother" who failed to live up to an ideal was chosen as a teacher.  The one true Father is the one who birthed you as spirit.  Any other you labeled as "father" is one you chose to serve as a teacher, and vice-versa.  If you are disappointed in the ones you identified as mother or father, it is because you set an ideal based upon a belief system you learned.  Were you adopted several times you would shift allegiances and perhaps hold onto the belief that the biological mother and father held the solution to your struggles.  This is a falsehood.

Your human parents are fellow sojourners, here to learn.  Have compassion for them as well as yourself.  There is One True Source of Love and Comfort and it lies within you.  You are an aspect of that eternal Source of Love.  Give up the belief in a mother and father who are separate from you.  Send love and gratitude to the very human beings you formerly believed were your source for the lessons you shared together.  Now, allow yourself to feel the loving arms of the true Father/Mother as you receive from within what you have been searching for outside of yourself your whole human life.