Family Dynamics

You cannot always blame the parents.  There are many factors involved in why a person is the way they are, not the least of which you would understand as karma.  If you want to blame the parents, go back to the time before the birth of even the parents when the soul group was deciding who would be related to whom for the greatest learning.  Now are you beginning to see?  You signed up for each other for the growth of the soul which could potentially occur as a result of your interactions.  And now you are facing those growth opportunities.  Ah, yes, you might choose to call them “challenges.”  Whatever term you use, we are aware that it is not always easy.  It is the very difficulty of the choices you face that actually makes it easier to notice when the opportunity to bring love into your choices presents itself.  Do you see?  Major challenge?  Major opportunity to respond with love.  Oh, the beauty in the system when you can see it as such.