Now, what of this use of free will in which you take your life into your own hands? Do you not know that there is remedial schooling and a sort of hospitalization for those who do this? You will remain segregated upon passing from those you most wanted to be reunited with. Yes, there will be visits, just as your loved one’s spirit visits you now, but you reap what you sow on the other side as much as you do in this one. There are consequences for every action. The pain caused to those left behind is commensurate with what you will feel upon realizing that your choice was far from optimal.
Do you know why you are still here and your loved one is not? Simply because you are here for your own soul’s growth. You soul made this decision, and you have yet more learning and loving to do. The pain you feel is an indicator of this. Your loved ones on the other side are patient now that they have the greater perspective. To them your absence is only the blink of an eye. To you it seems an eternity, but you have all of eternity to be together again.
Allow Spirit to decide when you will be reunited again and enjoy a most blessed and fruitful reunion. In the meantime, breathe deeply often and pray, “Oh, Spirit, may I feel your presence. Tell me what I have to learn from this time. Show me how I can grow and serve as a result of this pain. I am so grateful for the love we shared, that we continue to share, and will always share.”
Love is eternal, as is Life. You have a Lifetime to be with your love. This is but a parenthesis in eternity.
Note from Suzanne: The last line, “A Parenthesis in Eternity,” is the title of an excellent book by Joel Goldsmith that discusses the illusory boundaries we call birth and death.
Have not considered suicide, but this post resonates with me anyway. A much needed message on a day that I truly needed to hear this. Thank you, Sanaya for a message that touched me today.
ReplyDeleteA very well written and thoughtful post. I know many in this situation. I also was touched by this post having gone through some very traumatic incidences the past year. So happy to see it has touched the reply above as well, actually gives me goosebumps :)
ReplyDeleteMy daughter took her own life after suffering a breakdown which led to her death. She was very ill and I do not believe that anyone suffering in this world would not be met with anything but love after suicide!!! I'm very upset at what I've read. How can anyone be judged when it wasn't a deliberate act? I find it hard to believe what you have written.
ReplyDeleteDear Anonyous, Please see the reply I tried to post to you below (Jan 19th at 10:08)
DeletePlease do not read into this posting anything other than love. Everything Sanaya has shared previously about those who take their own lives is that they are met by nothing but love and are surrounded by love. You are very correct about this. You can search this site for these past messages. They mention a sort of "hospitalization," which I interpret as a loving environment where souls are well taken care of and tended to as they recover from whatever pain they suffered. There is no judgment, but at the same time, souls do feel the full impact of whatever decisions they made. I believe that Sanaya's intent in this particular post was to help those who are still in physical form to find a new way of seeing their options. I have brought through many, many souls on the other side in my readings who have taken their own lives and every single one has shown that they are in a loving place and were not judged by any other soul but themselves. Every one, so please do not be upset. Sent with love and compassion for your loss, Suzanne
ReplyDeleteThank you Suzanne for your reply. Maybe I misunderstood what was written. I am so full of grief and yearning for my daughter after 4 years. She really didn't know what she was doing when she took her life. I have had many signs from her and they are so comforting.
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