If you are less than peaceful over your friend’s
situation, then the place to focus your attention is on yourself. Even if your friend has asked for help or
asked to be changed, if you are feeling frustration, your friend is still in
your life for a reason: to teach
you.
Peace and unconditional love. These are the qualities of higher
consciousness. If you are not
experiencing these, then focus not on changing your friend, but on changing
yourself. You can stay with your friend
or walk away. Whichever you choose, if
you do so with peace and with unconditional love, then the relationship has
been of service.
Great message and it touched my soul today. When a previous relationship went south and we parted ways, for awhile I viewed it as a mistake. Feeling that had I not pursued it I wouldn't have wasted time there. Then, likely with insight from this site, I knew there was much growth. I let the anger, frustration and guilt go. I know now I am a better person for knowing and interacting with them. I feel it in my soul and know it was how I later perceived it in a positive light that brings me forward to a higher place. It's pretty awesome when I can look back at where I was and am now. Good stuff. Brad
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