Forever yours. There is one who has told you this and now is gone …separated—or so you think—by death. What has been joined by love cannot ever be separated. With the focus so strongly on the physical, perhaps you cannot sense their presence, but it is there. Gone from your sight, yes, but not from your heart and mind. “But that is not enough!” you cry, and that is the human way. Join them in spirit each day, each moment, if you wish, simply through the practice of closing the eyes and shutting out the physical world. They will join you there. But there is a reason you are still here. If you cannot find a reason for still being here, then you have more growth to be had, and paradoxically that is the reason.
Dedicate your life in service to others, perhaps in memory of the Love your loved one brought to you. That service could be to one or many, but through the act of it you will come to appreciate the “why’s” and no longer ask, “Why me?”