You cannot die, and you are loved. Are these not the two fears which lead one to feel pressured? If you can come to a place where you know these truths—that you cannot die and that you are loved--then you will be pressure-free. Remove the “pressure” from this last phrase and from your life, and what are you? You are free.
Note from Suzanne: I had the opportunity to share my work with 80 students at the University of Arizona this week. Afterwards I received comments and some questions from each student (All comments were anonymous). I felt that others might find my response informative, so they are now on my "Suzanne's News and Musings Blog." Here's the link: http://suzannegiesemannwhatsnew.blogspot.com/2015/04/inquiring-minds.html